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Daily Inspiration Quote by Mae West

"All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else"

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Mae West turns romantic wreckage into a punchline that doubles as a survival manual. “All discarded lovers” sounds like a category meant for pity, the human equivalent of last season’s clothes. West yanks it out of tragedy by treating “discarded” as the lover’s problem and the discarder’s tell: if you were tossed aside, it wasn’t proof you were worthless, it was proof someone else was careless or cruel or simply bored.

The sly genius is in the structure. She grants the sentimental impulse - a “second chance” - then refuses the most culturally sanctioned version of it: reconciliation. The twist, “but with somebody else,” is a velvet-gloved rebuke to the myth that closure requires returning to the person who hurt you. West is always negotiating power; here, she reroutes it. The “second chance” isn’t a reward handed back by the original partner, it’s a choice you take elsewhere. That reframing matters: it shifts romance from a court of appeal to a marketplace where you can walk away and try again.

Context sharpens the edge. West built her persona in an era that policed female desire and demanded women perform devotion even when treated as disposable. She answers with a joke that smuggles in autonomy. Laughing at the line is part of the point: humor is her camouflage, but also her weapon. It disarms the sting of rejection while quietly instructing the audience to stop auditioning for someone who already said no.

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TopicWitty One-Liners
Source
Later attribution: The Wit and Wisdom of Mae West (Mae West, 1967) modern compilation
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All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else. (Exact page not verifiable from available preview; book length 92 pages). The earliest primary-source attribution I could verify is the 1967 book 'The Wit and Wisdom of Mae West,' credited to Mae West and edited by Joseph Weintraub. Multiple secondary quote references point specifically to this 1967 book, and bibliographic records confirm the book existed in 1967. I could not verify an earlier appearance in a film script, interview, speech, or article from the currently accessible primary-source records. So the safest conclusion is that the earliest verifiable source presently found is this book, but it may still have appeared earlier in an unsearched interview, script, or unpublished routine. Open Library and Internet Archive confirm the 1967 edition and publication details. Goodreads/A-Z Quotes/LibQuotes also consistently cite this book as the source, though they are secondary aids rather than primary evidence. The Internet Archive copy is access-restricted and did not expose the specific page containing the quotation in the searchable lines available.
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Stumbling Blindly Toward Grace (Yvonne Marie Garvey, 2025) compilation95.0%
... Mae West says, “All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else.” Liquid. Lunches. W...
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APA Style (7th ed.)
West, Mae. (2026, March 10). All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-discarded-lovers-should-be-given-a-second-26241/

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West, Mae. "All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else." FixQuotes. March 10, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-discarded-lovers-should-be-given-a-second-26241/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else." FixQuotes, 10 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-discarded-lovers-should-be-given-a-second-26241/. Accessed 31 Mar. 2026.

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Mae West

Mae West (August 17, 1893 - November 22, 1980) was a Actress from USA.

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