"All great lovers are articulate, and verbal seduction is the surest road to actual seduction"
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The hinge is “verbal seduction,” a phrase that pulls courtship out of candlelit myth and into the realm of power. Words do two things at once: they signal confidence (the lover who risks saying what they want) and they manufacture intimacy (the lover who makes you feel seen). Talk becomes foreplay because it creates a shared reality: private jokes, confessions, the sense that you’re already inside an “us.” That’s why it’s “the surest road” - language is the fastest way to collapse distance without touching.
Subtext: the body follows the story. If you can make someone imagine you as a possibility, you’ve already done most of the work. There’s also a quiet class and gender politics here. In Mannes’s era, especially, verbal skill offered leverage where open sexual agency was policed. If you couldn’t always act freely, you could still maneuver, suggest, frame, and invite. It’s a sharp reminder that seduction is rarely mute; it’s negotiated, and the best negotiators know exactly what they’re saying.
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