"All honor's wounds are self-inflicted"
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The intent is less to sneer at honor than to demystify it. Carnegie suggests that "honor" is not an external force that attacks you; it's a code you choose, and that choice generates its own injuries: pride that won't back down, a refusal to compromise, the stubbornness that makes apologies feel like surrender. The subtext is a warning about moral vanity. People love to frame their suffering as proof of virtue, but Carnegie hints that a lot of that suffering is optional - a consequence of insisting on being seen a certain way.
Context matters. Carnegie rose from immigrant poverty to steel magnate, then tried to launder industrial hard edges into public beneficence through philanthropy. In the Gilded Age, "honor" was a language of status and legitimacy, a way to make ruthless competition look like principle. His aphorism quietly punctures that performance: if your sense of honor keeps cutting you, maybe it's not heroism; maybe it's self-sabotage dressed up as character. It reads like advice from someone who watched powerful men bleed over face-saving codes while the real game - money, leverage, labor - kept moving.
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"All honor's wounds are self-inflicted." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-honors-wounds-are-self-inflicted-29788/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.
















