"All I care is that my family, and my loved ones, understand me. Or that they understand me to a degree - I don't understand me very much. And I don't need the world to understand me. That is the most egocentric thing"
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The line about family and loved ones “understand[ing] me to a degree” is doing quiet work. It lowers the bar from total comprehension to humane closeness: intimacy as partial, evolving, occasionally messy. That’s a grown-up take on relationships, and it suggests a long view of identity as something you live into rather than “figure out” once and market forever.
Calling the desire for universal understanding “the most egocentric thing” flips the usual narrative where the public is cast as judge and the artist as supplicant. Corr implies the opposite: the public’s comprehension is not the point, and demanding it would center her ego over everyone else’s autonomy and complexity. In the late-90s/early-2000s pop landscape that built careers on accessibility and confession, this reads like a refusal to turn selfhood into customer service. It’s not anti-fan; it’s pro-boundary.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Corr, Andrea. (2026, January 16). All I care is that my family, and my loved ones, understand me. Or that they understand me to a degree - I don't understand me very much. And I don't need the world to understand me. That is the most egocentric thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-i-care-is-that-my-family-and-my-loved-ones-100652/
Chicago Style
Corr, Andrea. "All I care is that my family, and my loved ones, understand me. Or that they understand me to a degree - I don't understand me very much. And I don't need the world to understand me. That is the most egocentric thing." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-i-care-is-that-my-family-and-my-loved-ones-100652/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All I care is that my family, and my loved ones, understand me. Or that they understand me to a degree - I don't understand me very much. And I don't need the world to understand me. That is the most egocentric thing." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-i-care-is-that-my-family-and-my-loved-ones-100652/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.










