"All I want is for people to listen to it with unbiased ears, and decide for themselves. I just don't want them to be dictated to by the media, or have preconceptions about it. If you like it, great. If you don't, fair enough"
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The phrasing is careful, almost preemptively disarming. “Decide for themselves” signals autonomy, but it also hints at how little autonomy audiences really have when exposure is filtered through gatekeepers. “Dictated to by the media” reads as a direct critique of the promotional-industrial complex that both elevates and cages artists, especially women in pop: you’re either a manufactured product or a “serious” exception, and the coverage often assigns you one role regardless of what you make.
Then she pulls off a quiet rhetorical flex: “If you like it, great. If you don’t, fair enough.” That’s not indifference; it’s credibility-building. By granting permission to dislike the music, she undercuts the suspicion that the ask is for praise. The subtext is a negotiation with a cynical culture: don’t love me on brand, don’t hate me on reflex. Just listen first.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chisholm, Melanie. (2026, January 17). All I want is for people to listen to it with unbiased ears, and decide for themselves. I just don't want them to be dictated to by the media, or have preconceptions about it. If you like it, great. If you don't, fair enough. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-i-want-is-for-people-to-listen-to-it-with-70470/
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Chisholm, Melanie. "All I want is for people to listen to it with unbiased ears, and decide for themselves. I just don't want them to be dictated to by the media, or have preconceptions about it. If you like it, great. If you don't, fair enough." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-i-want-is-for-people-to-listen-to-it-with-70470/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All I want is for people to listen to it with unbiased ears, and decide for themselves. I just don't want them to be dictated to by the media, or have preconceptions about it. If you like it, great. If you don't, fair enough." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-i-want-is-for-people-to-listen-to-it-with-70470/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.






