"All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “All journeys” universalizes without sentimentality, while “unaware” strips away the modern obsession with intention and optimization. It’s a gentle rebuke to the idea that we can spreadsheet our lives into coherence. Buber, a philosopher of relation, is pointing to how becoming isn’t a solo project. We change because we encounter: a stranger, a text, a loss, a city, a moment that re-keys the entire soundtrack of your life. In Buber’s world, the “destination” often arrives through the Other - what he famously theorized as the I-Thou encounter - rather than through self-directed will.
Context sharpens the edge. Buber lived through the churn of European modernity, Zionist debate, and two world wars: eras when lives were “rerouted” by events no individual could manage. The quote carries that historical weather. It’s not just about vacations; it’s about migrations, commitments, conversions, betrayals - the way paths accrue meaning after the fact.
The secret isn’t mystical so much as relational and retrospective: you only learn where you were going once you’ve been changed by getting there.
Quote Details
| Topic | Journey |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Wisdom of Not Knowing (Estelle Frankel, 2017) modern compilationISBN: 9780834840775 · ID: hijKDQAAQBAJ
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... Martin Buber writes , " All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware . " The biblical narrative is replete with archetypal tales of journeys into the unknown . Part One of this book , " Journeys into the ... |
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"All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-journeys-have-secret-destinations-of-which-432/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






