"All lies and jests, still a man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest"
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Written into “The Boxer,” this feels less like a grand statement about society than a bruised self-portrait. The song’s narrator is a drifter and striver, someone collecting small humiliations and half-wins, and the lyric captures a survival tactic: selective hearing as emotional self-defense. When life is unstable, hearing only what confirms your next step can look like resilience. It can also be denial with good posture.
The subtext is that communication isn’t failing because messages are unclear; it’s failing because clarity threatens the stories we need to keep functioning. “Disregards the rest” is the quietest phrase here, and the cruelest: it implies waste, a whole remainder of reality left on the table. Simon’s genius is that he makes this cognitive bias sound like folk wisdom, hummable and intimate, so you recognize yourself before you can object.
Quote Details
| Topic | Truth |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: The Boxer (Simon & Garfunkel, 1969)
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Song: "The Boxer" by Simon & Garfunkel |
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Simon, Paul. (2026, February 8). All lies and jests, still a man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-lies-and-jests-still-a-man-hears-what-he-153978/
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Simon, Paul. "All lies and jests, still a man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-lies-and-jests-still-a-man-hears-what-he-153978/.
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"All lies and jests, still a man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-lies-and-jests-still-a-man-hears-what-he-153978/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.


















