"All love shifts and changes. I don't know if you can be wholeheartedly in love all the time"
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Her phrasing matters. “Wholeheartedly” is a loaded word, suggesting total emotional availability, unbroken certainty, an always-on state. Andrews doesn’t argue against love itself; she questions the expectation of continuous maximum output. That’s a quiet rebuke to the performance of romance, especially for women, who are often asked to be unwavering emotional infrastructure for everyone else.
Context does a lot of work here. Andrews’ public persona has long been synonymous with composure and “perfect” femininity, from Mary Poppins’ magical competence to Maria’s radiant optimism. Hearing her admit fluctuation punctures the myth without turning bitter. It reframes maturity not as settling, but as recognizing that intimacy has seasons: boredom, tenderness, irritation, return.
The subtext is practical and surprisingly modern: love isn’t invalidated by ebbing intensity. If anything, insisting on constant wholeheartedness can be a way to avoid the harder question - whether you can keep choosing someone when the feeling isn’t doing the heavy lifting. Andrews makes room for love as a verb, not just a mood.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Andrews, Julie. (2026, January 18). All love shifts and changes. I don't know if you can be wholeheartedly in love all the time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-love-shifts-and-changes-i-dont-know-if-you-23392/
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Andrews, Julie. "All love shifts and changes. I don't know if you can be wholeheartedly in love all the time." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-love-shifts-and-changes-i-dont-know-if-you-23392/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All love shifts and changes. I don't know if you can be wholeheartedly in love all the time." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-love-shifts-and-changes-i-dont-know-if-you-23392/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










