"All men are homosexual, some turn straight. It must be very odd to be a straight man because your sexuality is hopelessly defensive. It's like an ideal of racial purity"
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The line about straight male sexuality being “hopelessly defensive” lands because it names a familiar posture: masculinity policed by fear of contamination. In Jarman’s formulation, heterosexuality becomes a fortress identity, constantly shoring itself up against the slightest hint of softness, intimacy, or ambiguity. The subtext is less about who desires whom than about who gets to feel unexamined. Straightness, he suggests, becomes “normal” only by constantly reasserting its borders.
Then he spikes it with the “racial purity” comparison, deliberately radioactive language meant to connect private desire to public ideology. He’s arguing that purity fantasies operate the same way across domains: define a norm, treat deviation as threat, enforce conformity through shame and violence. Coming from a filmmaker and gay activist who lived through Thatcher-era moral panic and the AIDS crisis, this isn’t abstract theory; it’s a critique of how the state, the press, and everyday macho culture turned identity into surveillance.
Jarman’s wit is weaponized: the exaggeration is the lever. He’s not asking to be taken literally; he’s insisting the audience notice how much energy straight culture spends pretending it has no politics at all.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jarman, Derek. (2026, January 16). All men are homosexual, some turn straight. It must be very odd to be a straight man because your sexuality is hopelessly defensive. It's like an ideal of racial purity. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-men-are-homosexual-some-turn-straight-it-must-110716/
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Jarman, Derek. "All men are homosexual, some turn straight. It must be very odd to be a straight man because your sexuality is hopelessly defensive. It's like an ideal of racial purity." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-men-are-homosexual-some-turn-straight-it-must-110716/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All men are homosexual, some turn straight. It must be very odd to be a straight man because your sexuality is hopelessly defensive. It's like an ideal of racial purity." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-men-are-homosexual-some-turn-straight-it-must-110716/. Accessed 28 Feb. 2026.





