"All men are rapists and that's all they are. They rape us with their eyes, their laws, and their codes"
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The key move is expanding "rape" beyond the criminal act into a continuum of violations: the look that turns a woman into public property, the law that codifies dependence, the social codes that punish deviation. "Eyes, laws, and codes" is a neat escalation from intimate to institutional, insisting that harm isn’t only inflicted in alleys; it’s built into courts, workplaces, marriages, and manners. The sentence tries to collapse the false comfort of "not all men" by shifting the focus from personal intent to systemic effect.
Context matters. French emerged from second-wave feminism, when consciousness-raising made private life a political battleground and language was often deliberately incendiary to break through polite denial. The subtext is rage at a society that treats women’s autonomy as negotiable, then asks for moderation in the critique.
It also reveals its own risk: by flattening men into a single essence, it mirrors the dehumanizing logic it condemns, inviting backlash and misreading. That tension is why it still lands: it’s less a thesis than a flare shot into a culture comfortable with incremental outrage.
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| Topic | Equality |
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| Source | Verified source: Oxford Treasury of Sayings and Quotations (Susan Ratcliffe, 2011)ISBN: 9780199609123 · ID: IYOcAQAAQBAJ
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"All men are rapists and that's all they are. They rape us with their eyes, their laws, and their codes." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-men-are-rapists-and-thats-all-they-are-they-147566/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







