"All of us are made up of the stories that we listen to, the ones we disagree with and the ones that we agree with"
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The subtext is a rebuke to the fantasy of purity. People love to imagine they’re self-made: self-invented politics, self-curated culture, self-authored morality. Crouch insists the opposite. Even disagreement leaves residue. The story you reject still trains your reflexes: it gives you an opponent, a vocabulary, a set of stakes. That’s why he pairs “disagree” and “agree” as equal architects of the self. You’re formed not just by influences you admire, but by the ones you can’t stop talking about.
Context matters: Crouch came up when American cultural life was hardening into camps, with “authenticity” often used as a club. His criticism pushed against easy tribalism and against reducing Black culture to slogans or markets. The line argues for a more contested, more literate selfhood - one built through exposure, friction, and the willingness to be changed, even unwillingly, by what you hear.
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Crouch, Stanley. (2026, January 16). All of us are made up of the stories that we listen to, the ones we disagree with and the ones that we agree with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-of-us-are-made-up-of-the-stories-that-we-97414/
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Crouch, Stanley. "All of us are made up of the stories that we listen to, the ones we disagree with and the ones that we agree with." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-of-us-are-made-up-of-the-stories-that-we-97414/.
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"All of us are made up of the stories that we listen to, the ones we disagree with and the ones that we agree with." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-of-us-are-made-up-of-the-stories-that-we-97414/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.



