"All pressure is self-inflicted. It's what you make of it or how you let it rub off on you"
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Coe’s phrasing does a lot of work. “All” is absolutist, flattening the difference between stress that’s chosen (a race, a campaign) and stress that’s imposed (economic insecurity, institutional bias, public scrutiny). “How you let it rub off on you” is tactile, almost dismissive: pressure becomes contact, not calamity. You can brush it away. That’s a useful mental model for elite performers and leaders who need composure on command; it’s also a political sensibility, one that prizes resilience and self-management over structural critique.
The subtext lands as a kind of motivational stoicism tailored to public life: the cameras, the deadlines, the stakes are real, but panic is optional. Read generously, it’s a reminder that anxiety often comes from imagined futures more than present facts, and that reframing can preserve clarity. Read critically, it’s a doctrine that can shame people for reacting “wrong” to real constraints, smuggling a moral judgement into what looks like a psychological tip. Either way, it works because it offers something intoxicating in high-stakes cultures: the promise that control is always available, if only you choose it.
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| Topic | Stress |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coe, Sebastian. (2026, January 16). All pressure is self-inflicted. It's what you make of it or how you let it rub off on you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-pressure-is-self-inflicted-its-what-you-make-106843/
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Coe, Sebastian. "All pressure is self-inflicted. It's what you make of it or how you let it rub off on you." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-pressure-is-self-inflicted-its-what-you-make-106843/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All pressure is self-inflicted. It's what you make of it or how you let it rub off on you." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-pressure-is-self-inflicted-its-what-you-make-106843/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








