"All successful people these days seem to be neurotic. Perhaps we should stop being sorry for them and start being sorry for me - for being so confounded normal"
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The intent is slyly double-edged. On the surface, she’s puncturing the cultural habit of pitying the famous for their fragility, as if achievement comes with an automatic emotional surcharge. Underneath, she’s also auditioning for sympathy herself, but in a way that preserves pride: don’t feel sorry for them; notice the person who doesn’t get the compensatory mythology. Kerr understands that audiences don’t just admire success, they want a backstory that explains it. Neurosis offers one: it’s the inner storm that justifies the outward shine.
Context matters because Kerr belonged to an era when movie stardom depended on controlled elegance. “Confounded normal” reads as both personal joke and professional commentary: in a culture increasingly addicted to public confession and psychological intrigue, normalcy can look like a lack of content. The punchline isn’t that she’s stable; it’s that stability is suddenly a social disadvantage, a kind of invisibility, in a fame economy that rewards the conspicuous crack.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Attributed to Deborah Kerr; source: Wikiquote entry "Deborah Kerr" (online quote compendium). No primary published source page identified there. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kerr, Deborah. (2026, January 15). All successful people these days seem to be neurotic. Perhaps we should stop being sorry for them and start being sorry for me - for being so confounded normal. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-successful-people-these-days-seem-to-be-167315/
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Kerr, Deborah. "All successful people these days seem to be neurotic. Perhaps we should stop being sorry for them and start being sorry for me - for being so confounded normal." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-successful-people-these-days-seem-to-be-167315/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All successful people these days seem to be neurotic. Perhaps we should stop being sorry for them and start being sorry for me - for being so confounded normal." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-successful-people-these-days-seem-to-be-167315/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






