"All that matters is what we do for each other"
About this Quote
A moral like this lands differently coming from Lewis Carroll, a writer famous for making sense feel optional. In the Wonderland universe, rules are arbitrary, language slips on banana peels, and authority is mostly costume jewelry. Against that backdrop, “All that matters is what we do for each other” reads less like a Hallmark bumper sticker and more like a quiet rebuke to a world where logic is weaponized and etiquette is a trap. Carroll’s characters are forever insisting on procedure - who should speak, what words “really” mean, whose game you’re playing - while people get ignored, threatened, or literally put on trial for nothing. The line yanks the focus back to the only metric that can’t be gamed by cleverness: care.
The specific intent feels corrective: don’t confuse verbal dexterity with virtue. Carroll, a mathematician by training, understood the seduction of systems. His fiction often exposes how easily systems become absurd when they detach from human stakes. The subtext is pointed: morality isn’t a riddle to solve or a philosophy to win; it’s relational. What “matters” isn’t status, argument, or even coherence - it’s conduct.
Context matters, too. Victorian society prized decorum and hierarchy; Carroll’s nonsense punctures that stiffness by showing how “proper” can become cruel. This line offers a spare alternative ethic: in the middle of chaos, the only sane compass is mutual responsibility. Even in a world where words don’t behave, deeds still count.
The specific intent feels corrective: don’t confuse verbal dexterity with virtue. Carroll, a mathematician by training, understood the seduction of systems. His fiction often exposes how easily systems become absurd when they detach from human stakes. The subtext is pointed: morality isn’t a riddle to solve or a philosophy to win; it’s relational. What “matters” isn’t status, argument, or even coherence - it’s conduct.
Context matters, too. Victorian society prized decorum and hierarchy; Carroll’s nonsense punctures that stiffness by showing how “proper” can become cruel. This line offers a spare alternative ethic: in the middle of chaos, the only sane compass is mutual responsibility. Even in a world where words don’t behave, deeds still count.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|
More Quotes by Lewis
Add to List









