"All the stuff that I used to treat with contempt - you know, I'm an artist, man, I don't do that family stuff - has begun to seem really important"
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What gives the line its bite is the reversal: the contempt wasn’t aimed at family so much as at vulnerability. Family implies obligation, repetition, the unglamorous work of showing up. It can’t be curated the way an aesthetic can. By calling it “all the stuff,” Moody collapses a whole earlier identity into a pile of discarded bravado. That casual, baggy phrasing is strategic; it suggests he’s embarrassed by how much energy he spent policing his own image.
The subtext is a midlife recalibration without the Hallmark glow. “Has begun to seem” is incremental, reluctant, honest about how slow conversion really is. He’s not announcing enlightenment; he’s admitting the old mythology - art as exemption from responsibility - finally stopped paying rent. In the background sits a larger cultural shift: the waning romance of the tortured, unencumbered genius and a dawning recognition that intimacy and caretaking aren’t distractions from a life of the mind. They’re where consequence lives.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Moody, Rick. (2026, January 16). All the stuff that I used to treat with contempt - you know, I'm an artist, man, I don't do that family stuff - has begun to seem really important. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-the-stuff-that-i-used-to-treat-with-contempt-88183/
Chicago Style
Moody, Rick. "All the stuff that I used to treat with contempt - you know, I'm an artist, man, I don't do that family stuff - has begun to seem really important." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-the-stuff-that-i-used-to-treat-with-contempt-88183/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All the stuff that I used to treat with contempt - you know, I'm an artist, man, I don't do that family stuff - has begun to seem really important." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-the-stuff-that-i-used-to-treat-with-contempt-88183/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.





