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"All the stuff that I used to treat with contempt - you know, I'm an artist, man, I don't do that family stuff - has begun to seem really important"

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The swagger here is defensive, and Moody knows it. He opens by ventriloquizing a familiar pose - the artist as proud dropout from ordinary life, too rarefied for “that family stuff.” The phrase “you know” pulls the reader into complicity, as if this is a shared script from workshops, readings, and late-night conversations where contempt gets mistaken for seriousness. “I’m an artist, man” isn’t just a claim; it’s a costume, a way to make loneliness look like principle.

What gives the line its bite is the reversal: the contempt wasn’t aimed at family so much as at vulnerability. Family implies obligation, repetition, the unglamorous work of showing up. It can’t be curated the way an aesthetic can. By calling it “all the stuff,” Moody collapses a whole earlier identity into a pile of discarded bravado. That casual, baggy phrasing is strategic; it suggests he’s embarrassed by how much energy he spent policing his own image.

The subtext is a midlife recalibration without the Hallmark glow. “Has begun to seem” is incremental, reluctant, honest about how slow conversion really is. He’s not announcing enlightenment; he’s admitting the old mythology - art as exemption from responsibility - finally stopped paying rent. In the background sits a larger cultural shift: the waning romance of the tortured, unencumbered genius and a dawning recognition that intimacy and caretaking aren’t distractions from a life of the mind. They’re where consequence lives.

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Rick Moody (born October 18, 1961) is a Novelist from USA.

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