"All this flying around got on my nerves. But then I gave the script to Cathy to get her opinion. When she started to laugh, it was like 'That's it!'. I went to LA and I got the part"
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The intent is quietly corrective. O'Neill is puncturing the myth that actors "know" when a role is theirs. He admits annoyance and uncertainty, then outsources clarity to Cathy, whose laughter functions like a laugh track from the real world: immediate, uncoached, brutally honest. That "That's it!" isn't ego; it's relief. Comedy, especially the kind O'Neill built a career on, is less about self-expression than calibration. If the script can make someone laugh at a kitchen table, it can survive the machinery of auditions, notes, and network panic.
There's subtext about partnership, too. Cathy isn't a decorative spouse in the anecdote; she's a creative filter and emotional stabilizer. The line implies a private economy of decision-making that runs parallel to Hollywood's. "I went to LA and I got the part" lands like a punchline because it's clipped, almost dismissive - the success is real, but the real drama was deciding it was worth another flight.
Contextually, it fits O'Neill's persona: the everyman who treats fame like a job he clocked into, not a crown he earned.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
O'Neill, Ed. (2026, January 17). All this flying around got on my nerves. But then I gave the script to Cathy to get her opinion. When she started to laugh, it was like 'That's it!'. I went to LA and I got the part. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-this-flying-around-got-on-my-nerves-but-then-51156/
Chicago Style
O'Neill, Ed. "All this flying around got on my nerves. But then I gave the script to Cathy to get her opinion. When she started to laugh, it was like 'That's it!'. I went to LA and I got the part." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-this-flying-around-got-on-my-nerves-but-then-51156/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All this flying around got on my nerves. But then I gave the script to Cathy to get her opinion. When she started to laugh, it was like 'That's it!'. I went to LA and I got the part." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-this-flying-around-got-on-my-nerves-but-then-51156/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.

