"All this technology for connection and what we really only know more about is how anonymous we are in the grand scheme of things"
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The intent isn’t anti-technology so much as anti-fantasy. “All this technology” frames innovation as a kind of overinvestment, a massive infrastructure project justified by intimacy. Then she pivots: what we “really only know more about” is our anonymity. The phrasing is surgical. “Really” punctures the marketing language of platforms; “only” narrows the outcome to something bleakly specific. And “grand scheme of things” pulls the camera back to cosmic distance, making the promise of personalized feeds and constant pings feel almost absurd.
The subtext is about the mismatch between visibility and significance. Social media sells the sensation of being seen; Donahue points to the opposite lesson it teaches: that attention is not the same as being known, and that the crowd can make you feel more interchangeable, not less. It’s also a comment on how online life turns identity into data - legible, trackable, monetized - while still leaving the human core strangely unread.
Culturally, it’s a post-connection hangover line: the era when being “online” stopped feeling like a doorway and started feeling like a census.
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| Topic | Privacy & Cybersecurity |
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Donahue, Heather. (2026, January 16). All this technology for connection and what we really only know more about is how anonymous we are in the grand scheme of things. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-this-technology-for-connection-and-what-we-91208/
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Donahue, Heather. "All this technology for connection and what we really only know more about is how anonymous we are in the grand scheme of things." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-this-technology-for-connection-and-what-we-91208/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"All this technology for connection and what we really only know more about is how anonymous we are in the grand scheme of things." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-this-technology-for-connection-and-what-we-91208/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






