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Daily Inspiration Quote by Arthur Schopenhauer

"Almost all of our sorrows spring out of our relations with other people"

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Schopenhauer goes straight for the social jugular: misery isn’t mainly an act of fate, it’s a byproduct of proximity. The line is designed to sound like common sense, but it smuggles in his signature pessimism. “Almost all” is doing quiet, ruthless work here. He concedes disease, hunger, and bad luck, then implies they’re the minor league. The real heartbreak, he suggests, is manufactured where status, expectation, and ego collide: families, lovers, colleagues, crowds.

The intent isn’t to diagnose sadness as a personal flaw; it’s to reframe it as a structural feature of human contact. Schopenhauer’s worldview treats the self as a bundle of restless wanting, and other people as the loudest amplifiers of that wanting. Relationships don’t merely add complications; they create new forms of vulnerability. What hurts is not just what others do, but what they represent: competition, comparison, rejection, dependency. Social life becomes a marketplace where you’re always priced, judged, and occasionally returned.

The subtext has a cold consolation. If sorrow is socially produced, it’s also socially avoidable - at least in theory. That’s where Schopenhauer’s ascetic streak shows: solitude as damage control, detachment as mental hygiene. Written in a 19th-century Europe obsessed with etiquette, class, and reputation, the quote reads like an early critique of what we’d now call social pressure. It lands today because the stage has expanded: the “relations” now include strangers with opinions, algorithms with incentives, and an endless, anxious audience.

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Schopenhauer, Arthur. (2026, January 15). Almost all of our sorrows spring out of our relations with other people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/almost-all-of-our-sorrows-spring-out-of-our-379/

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"Almost all of our sorrows spring out of our relations with other people." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/almost-all-of-our-sorrows-spring-out-of-our-379/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Arthur Schopenhauer (February 22, 1788 - September 21, 1860) was a Philosopher from Germany.

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