"Always behave as if nothing had happened, no matter what has happened"
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The genius - and the chill - sits in the repetition: “no matter what has happened.” Bennett drags the rule past the reasonable boundary. Not just minor embarrassments, but catastrophe, betrayal, grief. The point is the extremity. It exposes how modern life, especially in the British middle-class world Bennett anatomized, rewards those who can keep the machinery running: show up, pay the bills, make polite conversation, don’t contaminate the room with your pain.
Context matters. Bennett wrote in an era braced by Victorian restraint and jolted by modernity’s anxieties: urbanization, class churn, war looming and then arriving. His fiction often tracks people trapped between inner desire and outer expectation. This maxim reads like advice from that pressure cooker: if you can’t control events, control the narrative they’re allowed to have on your face.
There’s a dark subtext, too: trauma handled through erasure. The line flatters endurance while quietly normalizing isolation. It’s resilience as etiquette - and etiquette as a gag.
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Bennett, Arnold. (2026, January 17). Always behave as if nothing had happened, no matter what has happened. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-behave-as-if-nothing-had-happened-no-46407/
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Bennett, Arnold. "Always behave as if nothing had happened, no matter what has happened." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-behave-as-if-nothing-had-happened-no-46407/.
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"Always behave as if nothing had happened, no matter what has happened." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-behave-as-if-nothing-had-happened-no-46407/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










