"Always do something that requires you and your date to talk"
About this Quote
The subtext is a little unsentimental, almost managerial: don’t rely on chemistry to magically appear; design conditions where it has to earn itself. That’s a quietly modern idea. It anticipates how easily we outsource connection to entertainment, performance, and screens - even when we’re physically together. Hill’s advice also dodges the fantasy of the “perfect” date as a scripted highlight reel. Instead, it favors low spectacle and high information: a walk, a museum you can argue about, a cooking class where awkwardness becomes material.
As an actor, Hill would have lived inside the difference between dialogue and monologue, between presence and pretense. This line reads like someone who understands that charm is often just well-timed silence - and that real compatibility shows up when you have to fill the space with something honest. It’s not about talking for its own sake; it’s about choosing settings where you can’t hide behind the room.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hill, Steven. (2026, January 16). Always do something that requires you and your date to talk. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-do-something-that-requires-you-and-your-116964/
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Hill, Steven. "Always do something that requires you and your date to talk." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-do-something-that-requires-you-and-your-116964/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Always do something that requires you and your date to talk." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-do-something-that-requires-you-and-your-116964/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





