"Always fall in with what you're asked to accept. Take what is given, and make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with whatever's going. Not against: with"
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The subtext is Frost’s lifelong argument with the myth of the heroic individual. His speakers get remembered for roads not taken and snowy woods, but they’re rarely revolutionaries. They’re negotiators with reality: stone walls, mending, duties, seasons. “Not against: with” is a pointed rejection of romantic antagonism, the idea that meaning comes from dramatic opposition. Frost’s New England stoicism favors endurance and craft over grand gestures. You don’t blow up the given world; you remodel it from the inside.
In context, it also reads as an artist’s credo. A poet “accepts” inherited forms, local speech, received ideas - then “makes it over” through voice, arrangement, pressure. The line quietly defends adaptation as integrity: meeting the moment without letting it own you. In a culture that rewards performative dissent, Frost offers a sharper provocation: the most effective resistance can look like cooperation until you notice who’s doing the shaping.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frost, Robert. (2026, January 17). Always fall in with what you're asked to accept. Take what is given, and make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with whatever's going. Not against: with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-fall-in-with-what-youre-asked-to-accept-26751/
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Frost, Robert. "Always fall in with what you're asked to accept. Take what is given, and make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with whatever's going. Not against: with." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-fall-in-with-what-youre-asked-to-accept-26751/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Always fall in with what you're asked to accept. Take what is given, and make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with whatever's going. Not against: with." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-fall-in-with-what-youre-asked-to-accept-26751/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.











