"Always give a word or sign of salute when meeting or passing a friend, or even a stranger, if in a lonely place"
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The brilliance is in the audience it imagines: not just "a friend" but "even a stranger", and not everywhere, but "in a lonely place". That final clause is the tell. In a settlement, norms are policed by witnesses. In isolation, the only law is the story that survives you. A salute becomes a mutual disarmament signal: I see you, I acknowledge your humanity, I am not moving like a threat. It also asserts the speaker's control over chaos. Where uncertainty reigns, ritual is a technology.
In Tecumseh's world - a leader trying to knit together Native nations while facing American expansion and the constant churn of militia violence - recognition was political. A greeting is a micro-treaty. It trains people to treat the unknown as potentially relational rather than automatically hostile, which is exactly how coalitions are built and how panic is prevented. The subtext is communal survival: your manners are your security, and your respect is your strategy.
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| Topic | Native American Sayings |
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Tecumseh. (2026, January 16). Always give a word or sign of salute when meeting or passing a friend, or even a stranger, if in a lonely place. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-give-a-word-or-sign-of-salute-when-meeting-126707/
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"Always give a word or sign of salute when meeting or passing a friend, or even a stranger, if in a lonely place." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/always-give-a-word-or-sign-of-salute-when-meeting-126707/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









