"Always remember that others may hate you but those who hate you don't win unless you hate them. And then you destroy yourself"
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The subtext is unmistakably Nixonian: he’s describing the mechanics of resentment as a political force and a personal toxin, the kind that tightens your circle of trust, turns strategy into paranoia, and converts criticism into vendetta. It’s also a confession disguised as advice. Nixon’s career was defined by grievance and siege mentality, from the “Checkers” speech to the bitterness toward “the press” and “the establishment,” culminating in Watergate’s self-immolation. He knew, late, that self-destruction doesn’t always arrive as a single scandal; it accumulates through reflexive contempt.
Rhetorically, the line works because it refuses comforting absolution. It concedes hate as a constant, then relocates agency to the self: your opponents can’t complete the job without your cooperation. Coming from a president whose downfall was as much psychological as procedural, it lands as both warning and epitaph.
Quote Details
| Topic | Forgiveness |
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| Source | Unverified source: Remarks on Departure From the White House (Richard M. Nixon, 1974)
Evidence: Primary-source context: Nixon delivered these farewell remarks in the East Room at the White House at 9:36 a.m. on August 9, 1974 (broadcast live). The line appears in the official transcript: “Always give your best, never get discouraged, never be petty; always remember, others may hate you, but... Other candidates (2) The Strange Death of Republican America (Sidney Blumenthal, 2008) compilation96.1% ... Richard Nixon , the first president he served , who said on the day he resigned his office , “ Always remember th... Gerald Ford (Richard M. Nixon) compilation35.5% japaneseamericans that there may yet be some life in that obsolete document i think it appropriate in this our bicent... |
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