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Happiness Quote by Aldous Huxley

"Amour is the one human activity of any importance in which laughter and pleasure preponderate, if ever so slightly, over misery and pain"

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Huxley gives romance a backhanded compliment: it matters, it’s central, it’s even salvific - but only by the thinnest statistical margin. The line is engineered like a skeptical toast. “One human activity of any importance” sets an almost bureaucratic bar for significance, then “if ever so slightly” undercuts the whole idea of love as transcendence. He’s not selling amour as purity; he’s grading it on a grim curve.

The wit is in the accounting. Huxley frames intimacy as a ledger where laughter and pleasure barely outnumber misery and pain, which smuggles in his broader suspicion of human projects: politics, ambition, ideology, even art often promise uplift and deliver collateral damage. Love, in his telling, is the rare enterprise where the ratio isn’t catastrophically bad. That’s a bleak worldview made tender by concession.

“Amour” does extra work. It’s not just “love” but a slightly stylized, continental word - a nod to romance as performance, as social script, as erotic comedy. Huxley, writing in a 20th century scarred by mechanized war and mass persuasion, is attentive to how the modern world industrializes misery. Against that backdrop, sex and affection become almost subversive: messy, bodily, ridiculous, resistant to managerial control.

The subtext isn’t that love saves us; it’s that everything else fails us harder. Huxley’s pessimism doesn’t cancel romance - it makes its modest surplus of joy feel like a minor miracle.

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Huxley, Aldous. (2026, January 17). Amour is the one human activity of any importance in which laughter and pleasure preponderate, if ever so slightly, over misery and pain. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/amour-is-the-one-human-activity-of-any-importance-29674/

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Huxley, Aldous. "Amour is the one human activity of any importance in which laughter and pleasure preponderate, if ever so slightly, over misery and pain." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/amour-is-the-one-human-activity-of-any-importance-29674/.

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"Amour is the one human activity of any importance in which laughter and pleasure preponderate, if ever so slightly, over misery and pain." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/amour-is-the-one-human-activity-of-any-importance-29674/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Aldous Huxley

Aldous Huxley (July 26, 1894 - November 22, 1963) was a Novelist from England.

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