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Marriage Quote by Agatha Christie

"An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets the more interested he is in her"

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Christie slips a scalpel into a valentine, and the cut is clean. On the surface, it is a flirtatious compliment: age doesn’t diminish desire; it sharpens it. But the joke only lands because it yokes romance to excavation, making “interest” sound less like devotion and more like professional curiosity. An archaeologist loves layers, patina, the slow accumulation of history. Translate that into marriage and you get an affection that thrives on time’s evidence rather than time’s erosion.

The subtext is pleasantly barbed. It tweaks a culture that treats women’s aging as a narrative problem to be solved (or hidden) while men’s aging is allowed to read as authority. Christie turns that double standard inside out: in her version, the husband’s gaze isn’t hunting for youth; it’s trained to value what youth can’t provide - complexity, story, provenance. The line flatters women by implying that their “value” compounds, but it also mocks the very idea that a partner’s attention needs a justification like market appreciation.

Context matters: Christie, writing in an era when marriage was still routinely framed as women’s primary destiny, offers a comic workaround. Don’t find a man who tolerates your aging; find one whose entire profession depends on reverence for the old. It’s classic Christie misdirection too: the punchline arrives with the cool efficiency of a detective reveal, exposing the hidden assumption (age equals loss) and replacing it with an alternative motive (age equals intrigue).

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TopicWitty One-Liners
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Later attribution: I Never Knew That About England (Christopher Winn, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9781448146062 · ID: _q5B1szl1KcC
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... Agatha divorced Archibald two years later and , in 1930 , married an archeologist , Max Mallowan . As she said at the time , ' An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have . The older she gets , the more interested he is in her ...
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Christie, Agatha. (n.d.). An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets the more interested he is in her. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/an-archaeologist-is-the-best-husband-a-woman-can-15624/

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Christie, Agatha. "An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets the more interested he is in her." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/an-archaeologist-is-the-best-husband-a-woman-can-15624/.

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"An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets the more interested he is in her." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/an-archaeologist-is-the-best-husband-a-woman-can-15624/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Agatha Christie

Agatha Christie (September 15, 1890 - January 12, 1976) was a Writer from England.

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