"An enemy to whom you show kindness becomes your friend, excepting lust, the indulgence of which increases its enmity"
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Then Saadi yanks the floor out from under the reader with the exception: lust. The subtext is almost clinical. Some antagonists are interpersonal and negotiable; others are appetites that feed on permission. Treat lust like a rival you can charm, and it doesn’t thaw - it recruits. Indulgence doesn’t resolve the conflict, it escalates it, because desire is not a party across the table but a claimant inside the house. Where kindness can convert a human opponent through conscience, it can’t bargain with a compulsion that lacks one.
Context matters: Saadi wrote for courts and classrooms, for readers navigating power, temptation, and self-governance. The couplet functions like a miniature ethics lesson: be generous outwardly, be severe inwardly. It’s also a subtle warning against misapplying spiritual language to sensual craving - calling indulgence “kindness” is just a way to launder weakness into virtue. The craft is in the pivot: one aphorism, two enemies, and a hard boundary between diplomacy and discipline.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Saadi. (2026, January 14). An enemy to whom you show kindness becomes your friend, excepting lust, the indulgence of which increases its enmity. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/an-enemy-to-whom-you-show-kindness-becomes-your-129128/
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Saadi. "An enemy to whom you show kindness becomes your friend, excepting lust, the indulgence of which increases its enmity." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/an-enemy-to-whom-you-show-kindness-becomes-your-129128/.
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"An enemy to whom you show kindness becomes your friend, excepting lust, the indulgence of which increases its enmity." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/an-enemy-to-whom-you-show-kindness-becomes-your-129128/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.












