"An extraordinary affair. I gave them their orders and they wanted to stay and discuss them"
About this Quote
Wellington is often painted as a cold professional, and the line weaponizes that persona. The dry cadence makes the officers (or subordinates) sound like a committee - people who think the job is deliberation rather than execution. The subtext is impatience with a rising culture of consultation, the kind of managerial modernity that treats decisions as collaborative drafts. He isn't arguing against thinking; he's defending the moment when thinking has to stop, because delay in war isn't neutral. It kills.
Context matters: Wellington's career was built on disciplined logistics and tight control, winning against larger forces through coordination and timing. His quip isn't merely snobbery from "royalty" (he was an aristocrat and statesman as well as a general); it's a worldview forged in campaigns where friction and second-guessing meant shattered lines and lost ground. The line also lets him be funny without being vulnerable: rather than admit uncertainty or conflict, he frames dissent as social oddity. It's leadership by wit - a brisk, cutting way to reassert the hierarchy while making everyone laugh just enough to fall back into line.
Quote Details
| Topic | Leadership |
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| Source | Later attribution: Lend Me Your Ears (Antony Jay, 2010) modern compilationISBN: 9780199572670 · ID: 0yA-MQLwOtEC
Evidence:
... Duke of Wellington 1769–1852 British soldier and statesman , Prime Minister 1828-30 , 1834. On Wellington : see ... An extraordinary affair . I gave them their orders and they wanted to stay and discuss them . Peter Hennessy ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wellington, Duke of. (2026, February 9). An extraordinary affair. I gave them their orders and they wanted to stay and discuss them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/an-extraordinary-affair-i-gave-them-their-orders-9550/
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Wellington, Duke of. "An extraordinary affair. I gave them their orders and they wanted to stay and discuss them." FixQuotes. February 9, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/an-extraordinary-affair-i-gave-them-their-orders-9550/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"An extraordinary affair. I gave them their orders and they wanted to stay and discuss them." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/an-extraordinary-affair-i-gave-them-their-orders-9550/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.




