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Love Quote by Leo Tolstoy

"And all people live, Not by reason of any care they have for themselves, But by the love for them that is in other people"

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Tolstoy lands the point with the blunt force of a moral reversal: you think you survive by self-management, but you’re actually being carried. The syntax itself enacts that undercutting. “Not by reason of any care they have for themselves” is a hard stop, almost prosecutorial, stripping away the modern romance of self-reliance. Then he pivots to the quiet engine of human continuity: “the love for them that is in other people.” Not love as a private feeling, but love as a social force lodged inside communities, families, strangers - an atmosphere that keeps bodies fed, sheltered, forgiven.

The intent is less comforting than corrective. Tolstoy is trying to reroute moral attention away from self-preservation and toward obligation, mercy, and mutual dependence. The subtext is Christian but also political: a critique of a world organized around property, calculation, and “rational” self-interest. By framing care for oneself as almost irrelevant to survival, he’s implying that the true scandal isn’t human weakness; it’s how often society pretends we earn life alone.

Context matters. Late Tolstoy, especially, was allergic to polite literary humanism. He wrote like someone trying to sandblast the ego off the reader. This line belongs to his larger campaign against vanity and coercive institutions: the state, the church-as-bureaucracy, the upper class’s moral anesthesia. It works because it’s both indictment and invitation - a reminder that we’re already living on borrowed grace, and we can choose to pass it on.

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SourceLeo Tolstoy — short story "What Men Live By" (appearing in the collection What Men Live By and Other Tales). The line appears in the story in standard English translations.
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Tolstoy, Leo. (2026, January 17). And all people live, Not by reason of any care they have for themselves, But by the love for them that is in other people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-all-people-live-not-by-reason-of-any-care-32517/

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Tolstoy, Leo. "And all people live, Not by reason of any care they have for themselves, But by the love for them that is in other people." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-all-people-live-not-by-reason-of-any-care-32517/.

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"And all people live, Not by reason of any care they have for themselves, But by the love for them that is in other people." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-all-people-live-not-by-reason-of-any-care-32517/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Leo Tolstoy (September 9, 1828 - November 20, 1910) was a Novelist from Russia.

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