"And even then when you take it, you've got to take it with your whole heart"
About this Quote
“Take it” is deliberately unspecific. It could be a role, a relationship, a second chance, a diagnosis, an apology, a life that doesn’t match the one you planned. That vagueness is the point; it turns the sentence into a portable ethic. And “whole heart” is not Hallmark language here. It’s a demand for total buy-in, the kind that makes half-measures impossible and excuses embarrassing. Laurie, whose career spanned studio-era expectations, long stretches of silence, and late-career rediscovery, knows what partial commitment looks like: it’s survival dressed up as choice.
The subtext is almost disciplinary: if you’re going to do it, stop bargaining with yourself. The phrase also reveals an actor’s understanding of stakes. Audiences can smell safety. “Whole heart” is the difference between performance and presence, between managing an image and actually letting something cost you. That’s why the line lands: it’s a romantic-sounding sentence with a steel frame inside.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Laurie, Piper. (2026, January 16). And even then when you take it, you've got to take it with your whole heart. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-even-then-when-you-take-it-youve-got-to-take-115445/
Chicago Style
Laurie, Piper. "And even then when you take it, you've got to take it with your whole heart." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-even-then-when-you-take-it-youve-got-to-take-115445/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And even then when you take it, you've got to take it with your whole heart." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-even-then-when-you-take-it-youve-got-to-take-115445/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











