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Creativity Quote by Jennifer Lopez

"And I deal with all that by being like a perfectionist. But that's okay"

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Perfectionism is Lopez's way of making chaos look like choreography. In two short sentences, she frames a coping mechanism as a brand asset: the pressure gets metabolized into polish. The first line opens with "And", like we're dropping into a longer confession mid-breath, implying this is a practiced explanation she returns to whenever the world gets too loud. "I deal with all that" is deliberately vague - fame, scrutiny, sexism, tabloid narratives, the punishing logistics of being a multi-hyphenate - then she resolves it with a casual pivot: "by being like a perfectionist". That "like" is doing heavy lifting. It softens the admission, keeps it relatable, and dodges the clinical edge of saying "I am a perfectionist", as if she knows the trait can read as both discipline and damage.

"But that's okay" is the tell. It sounds reassuring, yet it also functions as preemptive defense, the kind celebrities learn to deploy when they're aware their coping strategy might get psychoanalyzed in real time. Lopez is negotiating a cultural double bind: women in pop are expected to be effortless while being punished for visible effort; they must be impeccable without appearing controlling. Perfectionism becomes the socially acceptable language for ambition, a way to claim authority over her craft while presenting it as self-care.

The subtext is less "I like things tidy" and more "My control is how I survive". It's a small line that carries the machinery of an entire public life: if she can't control the narrative, she can at least control the performance.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lopez, Jennifer. (2026, January 17). And I deal with all that by being like a perfectionist. But that's okay. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-deal-with-all-that-by-being-like-a-31859/

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Lopez, Jennifer. "And I deal with all that by being like a perfectionist. But that's okay." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-deal-with-all-that-by-being-like-a-31859/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And I deal with all that by being like a perfectionist. But that's okay." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-deal-with-all-that-by-being-like-a-31859/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Jennifer Lopez

Jennifer Lopez (born July 24, 1970) is a Musician from USA.

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