"And I deal with all that by being like a perfectionist. But that's okay"
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"But that's okay" is the tell. It sounds reassuring, yet it also functions as preemptive defense, the kind celebrities learn to deploy when they're aware their coping strategy might get psychoanalyzed in real time. Lopez is negotiating a cultural double bind: women in pop are expected to be effortless while being punished for visible effort; they must be impeccable without appearing controlling. Perfectionism becomes the socially acceptable language for ambition, a way to claim authority over her craft while presenting it as self-care.
The subtext is less "I like things tidy" and more "My control is how I survive". It's a small line that carries the machinery of an entire public life: if she can't control the narrative, she can at least control the performance.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lopez, Jennifer. (2026, January 17). And I deal with all that by being like a perfectionist. But that's okay. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-deal-with-all-that-by-being-like-a-31859/
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Lopez, Jennifer. "And I deal with all that by being like a perfectionist. But that's okay." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-deal-with-all-that-by-being-like-a-31859/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And I deal with all that by being like a perfectionist. But that's okay." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-deal-with-all-that-by-being-like-a-31859/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








