"And I felt sorry, and I have felt bad about what happened"
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The doubling matters. “Felt sorry” is the social script; “have felt bad” is the private aftertaste that doesn’t end when the cameras move on. The shift in tense stretches a moment into a life sentence: what “happened” isn’t just an incident, it’s an enduring condition. And “what happened” itself is a carefully chosen blur. It acknowledges harm without re-litigating the lurid details that media and politics already mined for profit. She’s naming consequence while refusing to feed the spectacle.
The subtext is heavier than the words: remorse mixed with survival, accountability without self-annihilation. Lewinsky is often expected to perform either total contrition or total defiance; this sentence occupies the narrow, human middle. It’s also a quiet indictment of the imbalance that framed the scandal: she’s the one still asked to emote on demand, still managing everyone else’s discomfort. The line works because it’s not a slogan. It’s someone trying to reclaim a moral voice after being denied complexity for decades.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lewinsky, Monica. (2026, January 16). And I felt sorry, and I have felt bad about what happened. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-felt-sorry-and-i-have-felt-bad-about-what-82309/
Chicago Style
Lewinsky, Monica. "And I felt sorry, and I have felt bad about what happened." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-felt-sorry-and-i-have-felt-bad-about-what-82309/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And I felt sorry, and I have felt bad about what happened." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-felt-sorry-and-i-have-felt-bad-about-what-82309/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.


