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Daily Inspiration Quote by Salma Hayek

"And I highly recommend for all the women in the world, even if they're 71, you can never take for granted that he loves you. It's always good to flirt with him. It's a great sport"

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Hayek turns long-term romance into something closer to training than destiny: you do not "have" love, you keep earning attention. The line is slyly anti-fairytale. It punctures the cultural script that marriage (or time served) converts desire into a permanent pension. Even at 71, she argues, the game is still on. That age tag is doing heavy work: it refuses the idea that flirtation is only for the young, and it refuses the quieter insult that older women should be grateful for whatever affection remains.

Calling it "a great sport" is the key reframing. Sport implies skill, repetition, risk, and pleasure; it also implies agency. She is not advising women to perform insecurity for male approval so much as to protect the relationship from complacency, the true villain here. "You can never take for granted that he loves you" sounds harsh on paper, but in Hayek's mouth it reads as pragmatic intimacy: love isn't a static feeling, it's a dynamic behavior set that can be neglected.

The subtext is also cultural. Hayek, a public figure who has navigated Hollywood's ageism and the constant policing of women's desirability, is quietly reclaiming flirtation as something other than catering to the male gaze. It's play, not pleading; maintenance, not desperation. The intent is to normalize erotic selfhood across decades, while acknowledging a reality people avoid saying out loud: many relationships die of presumed certainty. Flirtation becomes a small act of defiance against that slow drift.

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Hayek, Salma. (2026, January 16). And I highly recommend for all the women in the world, even if they're 71, you can never take for granted that he loves you. It's always good to flirt with him. It's a great sport. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-highly-recommend-for-all-the-women-in-the-107024/

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Hayek, Salma. "And I highly recommend for all the women in the world, even if they're 71, you can never take for granted that he loves you. It's always good to flirt with him. It's a great sport." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-highly-recommend-for-all-the-women-in-the-107024/.

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"And I highly recommend for all the women in the world, even if they're 71, you can never take for granted that he loves you. It's always good to flirt with him. It's a great sport." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-highly-recommend-for-all-the-women-in-the-107024/. Accessed 15 Mar. 2026.

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Salma Hayek (born September 2, 1966) is a Actress from Mexico.

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