"And I particularly like the whole thing of being boss. Boss and employee... It's the slave quality that I find very alluring"
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The phrasing is doing sly work. “Boss and employee” starts safely, almost corporate, a wink toward mundane authority. Then he yanks the rug with “slave quality,” a phrase engineered to make the listener recoil and lean in at the same time. That escalation is a classic Grant move: court discomfort to expose hypocrisy, or at least to show he’s in on the joke of his own appetites. It’s also a dodge. By choosing a word with historical violence, he amplifies the shock value while leaving himself room to claim he meant consensual submission, not literal slavery.
The subtext is celebrity candor as performance. Grant’s “alluring” isn’t only about dominance; it’s about control in a life defined by scrutiny and scripted personas. By exaggerating the dynamic, he reasserts authorship over his image: yes, I’m privileged, yes, I’m complicated, and yes, I’ll say the unsayable first. The cultural context is late-20th/early-21st-century confessional media, where transgression sells, irony provides cover, and the audience’s discomfort becomes part of the entertainment.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grant, Hugh. (2026, January 17). And I particularly like the whole thing of being boss. Boss and employee... It's the slave quality that I find very alluring. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-particularly-like-the-whole-thing-of-being-53777/
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Grant, Hugh. "And I particularly like the whole thing of being boss. Boss and employee... It's the slave quality that I find very alluring." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-particularly-like-the-whole-thing-of-being-53777/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And I particularly like the whole thing of being boss. Boss and employee... It's the slave quality that I find very alluring." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-particularly-like-the-whole-thing-of-being-53777/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






