"And I think from a male perspective, we have men talking about their feelings and it being okay"
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The subtext is less about feelings themselves and more about permission structures. “It being okay” points to the real antagonist here: the social consequences men anticipate for emotional honesty - ridicule, lost status, being read as weak, being denied tenderness. Chestnut, whose career has often traded in polished, traditionally “strong” leading-man roles, carries extra credibility when he says this. He’s a familiar avatar of composure and control, so his endorsement of emotional speech reads like an update to the script of manhood rather than a rejection of it.
Context matters: contemporary film and TV have been slowly renegotiating what male characters are allowed to do onscreen - cry without being punished by the narrative, confess fear without a punchline. Chestnut’s phrasing mirrors that transitional moment. It’s not radical theory; it’s cultural weather reporting. The power is in its ordinariness: the idea that men expressing feelings shouldn’t be heroic, it should be normal.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chestnut, Morris. (2026, January 16). And I think from a male perspective, we have men talking about their feelings and it being okay. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-think-from-a-male-perspective-we-have-men-100619/
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Chestnut, Morris. "And I think from a male perspective, we have men talking about their feelings and it being okay." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-think-from-a-male-perspective-we-have-men-100619/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And I think from a male perspective, we have men talking about their feelings and it being okay." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-think-from-a-male-perspective-we-have-men-100619/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








