"And I used to assemble the family to hear because I thought that they were so good that even from the point of view of enjoyment people shouldn't miss them, and I got every word of his that I could, and I could see by hard argument there was only the one way for it"
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The subtext is classically British in its self-discipline. She doesn’t say she was moved; she says she made a case, “by hard argument,” as though emotion alone would be indulgent. That phrase also hints at resistance: someone in the family didn’t want to listen, or thought the enthusiasm excessive. Pitter answers not with gush but with reasoning, and then with a quietly authoritarian conclusion: “there was only the one way for it.” Art, in her telling, is not optional once its quality is recognized.
Context matters because Pitter grew up in a world where access to great performance often arrived mediated: radio, records, the preciousness of “every word” you could capture. The line carries that archival hunger, the sense that culture can be scarce and fleeting, so you hoard it, share it, and build a small domestic audience. It’s fandom before fandom had a name: persuasive, communal, slightly militant about taste.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Pitter, Ruth. (2026, January 17). And I used to assemble the family to hear because I thought that they were so good that even from the point of view of enjoyment people shouldn't miss them, and I got every word of his that I could, and I could see by hard argument there was only the one way for it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-used-to-assemble-the-family-to-hear-because-77174/
Chicago Style
Pitter, Ruth. "And I used to assemble the family to hear because I thought that they were so good that even from the point of view of enjoyment people shouldn't miss them, and I got every word of his that I could, and I could see by hard argument there was only the one way for it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-used-to-assemble-the-family-to-hear-because-77174/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And I used to assemble the family to hear because I thought that they were so good that even from the point of view of enjoyment people shouldn't miss them, and I got every word of his that I could, and I could see by hard argument there was only the one way for it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-i-used-to-assemble-the-family-to-hear-because-77174/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.



