"And if you had an, an opportunity to have a hot meal, you did. That was the cook. But you didn't stop and say, This is dinnertime and Oh wait it's five o'clock, it's time to eat for supper"
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The cook becomes more than staff; he’s the infrastructure of resilience. In Bailey’s framing, the cook isn’t making dinner, he’s managing volatility: resources, timing, and whoever happens to be available. That subtle shift does cultural work. It reframes "discipline" away from tidy self-help rituals (meal prep, consistent bedtimes, optimization) and toward opportunism as competence: you eat when you can because the environment doesn’t care about your preferences.
The subtext reads like an origin story businessmen love to trade in: the formative scarcity that justifies later intensity. If you grew up around unpredictable labor, shifting shifts, or communal living, you recognize the ethic: don’t be precious, don’t waste the moment, don’t assume the system will pause for you. Even the mock quotation of bourgeois order ("This is dinnertime... five o'clock") lands as a soft sneer at middle-class certainty.
Context matters: said by a businessman, it’s also a management parable. The line quietly argues for adaptability over ritual, responsiveness over entitlement - and suggests that what looks like chaos from the outside can be a practiced, functional way of getting through.
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| Topic | Cooking |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bailey, Howard. (2026, January 17). And if you had an, an opportunity to have a hot meal, you did. That was the cook. But you didn't stop and say, This is dinnertime and Oh wait it's five o'clock, it's time to eat for supper. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-if-you-had-an-an-opportunity-to-have-a-hot-55054/
Chicago Style
Bailey, Howard. "And if you had an, an opportunity to have a hot meal, you did. That was the cook. But you didn't stop and say, This is dinnertime and Oh wait it's five o'clock, it's time to eat for supper." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-if-you-had-an-an-opportunity-to-have-a-hot-55054/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And if you had an, an opportunity to have a hot meal, you did. That was the cook. But you didn't stop and say, This is dinnertime and Oh wait it's five o'clock, it's time to eat for supper." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-if-you-had-an-an-opportunity-to-have-a-hot-55054/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.







