"And I'm in favor of that because I have a gay son, who's a very successful theater designer"
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The subtext is doing two things at once. On one level, its strategic: in a culture where gay rights have often been treated as a "special interest", the parent-of-a-gay-child line reframes the issue as ordinary family life. On another level, it quietly reveals the limits of mainstream acceptance: the claim to justice is still being routed through respectability and intimacy. MacNeil is not saying "because rights are rights"; he is saying "because someone I love is affected". That is persuasive, but also telling about the era and audience he is calibrating for.
The final clause, "who's a very successful theater designer", adds a second credential: achievement. It signals pride, but also functions as a preemptive defense against stigma, as if success should reassure skeptics that this gay son is not a threat but an asset. Theater, with its longstanding queer associations, makes the detail even sharper: MacNeil normalizes what some listeners might stereotype, by presenting it as a straightforward résumé line. The result is a compact piece of rhetorical bridge-building, humane, careful, and faintly revealing in what it feels compelled to justify.
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MacNeil, Robert. (2026, January 16). And I'm in favor of that because I have a gay son, who's a very successful theater designer. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-im-in-favor-of-that-because-i-have-a-gay-son-102458/
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"And I'm in favor of that because I have a gay son, who's a very successful theater designer." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-im-in-favor-of-that-because-i-have-a-gay-son-102458/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




