"And it is easy to believe you are not good enough if you listen to everybody else"
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The phrasing “listen to everybody else” smuggles in a critique of democratic opinion-making. Everybody sounds fair, inclusive, wise. In practice it becomes noise: contradictory notes, shifting standards, and a thousand tiny judgments that turn your sense of self into a committee meeting. Astin’s subtext is less “ignore criticism” than “decide who gets a vote.” That’s a crucial distinction in creative work, where discernment matters as much as confidence. One trusted mentor can sharpen you; a crowd can sand you down.
Contextually, it also reads as a comment on the attention economy. The modern performer isn’t just acting; they’re managing perception. When your livelihood depends on being seen, it’s tempting to outsource self-worth to visibility and approval. Astin calls that bluff: if you keep your ear pressed to the wall of public opinion, “not good enough” becomes the default soundtrack, not because it’s true, but because it’s the easiest story for the noise to tell.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Astin, Mackenzie. (2026, January 16). And it is easy to believe you are not good enough if you listen to everybody else. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-it-is-easy-to-believe-you-are-not-good-enough-120443/
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Astin, Mackenzie. "And it is easy to believe you are not good enough if you listen to everybody else." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-it-is-easy-to-believe-you-are-not-good-enough-120443/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And it is easy to believe you are not good enough if you listen to everybody else." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-it-is-easy-to-believe-you-are-not-good-enough-120443/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






