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"And it's absolutely true that male sexual behaviour and female responses to male demands change a lot when they start communicating - and the levels of the communication that I've seen on the ground in very, very poor areas are so high and I think why don't we have that here?"

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Thompson is doing something sneakily provocative here: she flips the usual “the West is more enlightened” script and asks why the richest societies can’t manage the kind of basic, consequential conversation she’s witnessed in places we’re trained to pity. The hook isn’t poverty tourism; it’s the embarrassment of abundance. If “very, very poor areas” can sustain “levels of communication” that shift sexual behavior and women’s ability to answer male demands, what exactly is our excuse?

Her intent is pragmatic, almost activist in its mechanics: communication isn’t a vibe, it’s an intervention. By tying talk directly to outcomes - men’s behavior changes, women’s responses change - she frames consent and sexual power as social systems, not individual morality plays. The subtext: silence is a luxury culture can afford only when it’s willing to absorb the costs in coercion, resentment, and misunderstanding.

Context matters. Thompson has spent years attached to humanitarian work, particularly around women’s rights and public health. On the ground, “communication” often means facilitated discussions, peer groups, health education, community organizing - structured spaces where norms can be named and contested. In many affluent contexts, sex is everywhere as content but strangely scarce as shared language: porn as instruction, therapy as private triage, dating apps as negotiation by emoji.

The rhetorical move that lands is her final question, “why don’t we have that here?” It’s not naïve. It’s an indictment of cultures that market sexual freedom while leaving people linguistically and ethically unarmed.

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Thompson, Emma. (2026, January 17). And it's absolutely true that male sexual behaviour and female responses to male demands change a lot when they start communicating - and the levels of the communication that I've seen on the ground in very, very poor areas are so high and I think why don't we have that here? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-its-absolutely-true-that-male-sexual-50050/

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Thompson, Emma. "And it's absolutely true that male sexual behaviour and female responses to male demands change a lot when they start communicating - and the levels of the communication that I've seen on the ground in very, very poor areas are so high and I think why don't we have that here?" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-its-absolutely-true-that-male-sexual-50050/.

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"And it's absolutely true that male sexual behaviour and female responses to male demands change a lot when they start communicating - and the levels of the communication that I've seen on the ground in very, very poor areas are so high and I think why don't we have that here?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-its-absolutely-true-that-male-sexual-50050/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Emma Thompson

Emma Thompson (born April 15, 1959) is a Actress from England.

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