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Fatherhood Quote by Gary Oldman

"And of course I've got kids of my own now, and they love me being in the Harry Potter films. I'm now part of a phenomenon. You become incredibly cool to your kids, and you get a young fan base. So you became the cool dad at school. You're suddenly hip"

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Oldman is describing a rare kind of cultural alchemy: the way a global franchise can launder “serious actor” credibility into playground currency. He’s not bragging about prestige; he’s marveling at the inversion of status. In the adult world, respect is earned through craft, range, and a long resume. In a child’s world, relevance is a casting credit. “Phenomenon” is the key word here, because Harry Potter isn’t just a set of films; it’s a shared language kids use to sort the universe into what counts and what doesn’t. Oldman is admitting that his authority at home and at school isn’t coming from parenting excellence, it’s coming from IP.

The subtext is both affectionate and faintly bemused, like he’s watching the marketplace reassign his identity. He’s played gangsters, spies, politicians, monsters; none of that makes you “hip” in the eyes of an eight-year-old. But step into a world they already obsess over and you inherit their passion, instantly. “Of course” carries a wink: this is how celebrity works now, less about individuality than about being plugged into a cultural grid.

Context matters, too. Oldman joined Potter as Sirius Black, a character designed to feel mythic and intimate at once - the cool, dangerous adult who’s also protective. That casting choice extends offscreen. He becomes the “cool dad at school” not because he’s trying to be cool, but because the franchise has done the social labor for him, turning fatherhood into fandom.

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Oldman, Gary. (2026, January 18). And of course I've got kids of my own now, and they love me being in the Harry Potter films. I'm now part of a phenomenon. You become incredibly cool to your kids, and you get a young fan base. So you became the cool dad at school. You're suddenly hip. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-of-course-ive-got-kids-of-my-own-now-and-they-5835/

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Oldman, Gary. "And of course I've got kids of my own now, and they love me being in the Harry Potter films. I'm now part of a phenomenon. You become incredibly cool to your kids, and you get a young fan base. So you became the cool dad at school. You're suddenly hip." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-of-course-ive-got-kids-of-my-own-now-and-they-5835/.

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"And of course I've got kids of my own now, and they love me being in the Harry Potter films. I'm now part of a phenomenon. You become incredibly cool to your kids, and you get a young fan base. So you became the cool dad at school. You're suddenly hip." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-of-course-ive-got-kids-of-my-own-now-and-they-5835/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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