"And of course, now that Bernard and I have found each other forever, we're determined to create our own little world in order to survive the one we're in"
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The phrase “our own little world” does heavy lifting. “Little” makes it sound modest, even childlike, as if they’re playing house. But the subtext is closer to bunker-building: a private ecosystem with its own rules because the public one feels hostile, unstable, or simply exhausting. It’s a distinctly late-20th-century emotional posture, adjacent to the era’s retreat into domesticity and self-curated intimacy: if the world is loud and precarious, shrink your radius, control the inputs, survive.
Duvall’s intent also carries an actress’s awareness of exposure. For performers, the “world we’re in” isn’t just society; it’s the machine of attention, gossip, and commodified personal life. Framing partnership as a constructed “world” signals agency: not merely falling in love, but designing boundaries. The line works because it refuses the usual romance script where love conquers all; instead it admits the baseline is struggle, and the couple’s project is less conquest than insulation. It’s tender, yes, but its tenderness has teeth.
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| Topic | Soulmate |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Duvall, Shelley. (2026, January 16). And of course, now that Bernard and I have found each other forever, we're determined to create our own little world in order to survive the one we're in. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-of-course-now-that-bernard-and-i-have-found-84153/
Chicago Style
Duvall, Shelley. "And of course, now that Bernard and I have found each other forever, we're determined to create our own little world in order to survive the one we're in." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-of-course-now-that-bernard-and-i-have-found-84153/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And of course, now that Bernard and I have found each other forever, we're determined to create our own little world in order to survive the one we're in." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-of-course-now-that-bernard-and-i-have-found-84153/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








