"And of course we are familiar with the English common law rule of thumb that said a man could in fact use a stick no bigger than his thumb to discipline his wife and family"
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The phrase "rule of thumb" is the real pressure point. In everyday speech it means a harmless heuristic, a practical shortcut. Ireland drags the euphemism back to its alleged origin in sanctioned domestic violence, forcing the listener to feel the cognitive whiplash between cozy idiom and brutal reality. Even if historians debate whether English common law literally codified a "thumb-sized stick" rule, the rhetorical move remains potent: she’s pointing at how institutions normalize harm by laundering it through language, tradition, and folksy pragmatism.
Context matters here because Ireland is an activist speaking in a late-20th-century feminist legal landscape, when domestic violence was increasingly being reframed from "private matter" to public crime and civil rights issue. Her intent is not antiquarian accuracy; it’s cultural exposure. She makes the past sound uncomfortably like the present: a society that can joke, shrug, or "rule-of-thumb" its way around women’s bodily autonomy is a society still negotiating how much violence counts as order.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ireland, Patricia. (2026, January 16). And of course we are familiar with the English common law rule of thumb that said a man could in fact use a stick no bigger than his thumb to discipline his wife and family. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-of-course-we-are-familiar-with-the-english-82746/
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Ireland, Patricia. "And of course we are familiar with the English common law rule of thumb that said a man could in fact use a stick no bigger than his thumb to discipline his wife and family." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-of-course-we-are-familiar-with-the-english-82746/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And of course we are familiar with the English common law rule of thumb that said a man could in fact use a stick no bigger than his thumb to discipline his wife and family." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-of-course-we-are-familiar-with-the-english-82746/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.





