"And one thing that I always believed and that I knew for certain was that I could never have sustained a personal relationship while I worked this hard, or while I was that driven this intensely by the story"
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The subtext is about appetite and control. “Driven this intensely by the story” turns reporting into a kind of compulsion: not fame-chasing or careerism, but surrender to the gravity of events. For a war correspondent and global anchor, “the story” is also history in motion - crises that don’t wait for anniversaries, relationships, or sleep. When she says she couldn’t sustain a personal relationship, she’s also acknowledging what that level of devotion demands from others: long absences, emotional triage, a partner who must accept being secondary to catastrophe.
Contextually, it lands as a corrective to the way high-achievement narratives, especially for women, get packaged. Amanpour refuses the inspirational gloss. She’s not offering a cautionary tale; she’s naming a trade-off with clear-eyed authority, and daring the audience to admit that some forms of excellence are structurally incompatible with the life we’re told we can “have it all” in.
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| Topic | Work-Life Balance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Amanpour, Christiane. (2026, January 17). And one thing that I always believed and that I knew for certain was that I could never have sustained a personal relationship while I worked this hard, or while I was that driven this intensely by the story. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-one-thing-that-i-always-believed-and-that-i-45989/
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Amanpour, Christiane. "And one thing that I always believed and that I knew for certain was that I could never have sustained a personal relationship while I worked this hard, or while I was that driven this intensely by the story." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-one-thing-that-i-always-believed-and-that-i-45989/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And one thing that I always believed and that I knew for certain was that I could never have sustained a personal relationship while I worked this hard, or while I was that driven this intensely by the story." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-one-thing-that-i-always-believed-and-that-i-45989/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.






