"And so I missed those best years and I find it difficult for me, in groups, to be comfortable"
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The second clause is where the subtext sharpens. “I find it difficult for me, in groups, to be comfortable” isn’t a complaint about shyness; it reads like the afterimage of displacement. Group comfort is a learned rhythm: small talk, trust, the unconscious sense of belonging. If you “missed” formative years, you miss practice. The phrasing is slightly awkward, almost doubled (“difficult for me”), which ironically reinforces the point: he’s describing social friction while performing it.
Coming from an actor, the line also punctures the myth of effortless charisma. Albert made a career out of appearing relaxed on cue. Off camera, he’s confessing the cost of that performance - that public ease can coexist with private estrangement. It’s an early, plainspoken critique of a culture that treats emotional gaps as personal failures instead of evidence that a life was interrupted.
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| Topic | Anxiety |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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Albert, Eddie. (n.d.). And so I missed those best years and I find it difficult for me, in groups, to be comfortable. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-so-i-missed-those-best-years-and-i-find-it-109268/
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Albert, Eddie. "And so I missed those best years and I find it difficult for me, in groups, to be comfortable." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-so-i-missed-those-best-years-and-i-find-it-109268/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And so I missed those best years and I find it difficult for me, in groups, to be comfortable." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-so-i-missed-those-best-years-and-i-find-it-109268/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

