"And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more"
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Jong’s line is a neat little trapdoor: it starts in the language of prudence and ends by indicting it. “Trouble” frames caution as the real liability, not the daring choice we’re trained to fear. The pivot is the double use of “risk,” a word that usually belongs to gamblers, entrepreneurs, and people with a plan. Jong steals it back for the private life. If you don’t risk anything, she implies, you’re still wagering - you’re just betting on stasis. And stasis is not neutral; it has a cost.
The intent feels corrective, almost diagnostic. Jong isn’t romanticizing recklessness; she’s naming the hidden math of avoidance. The subtext is feminist and mid-century in its DNA: for women especially, “safety” has often meant shrinking your desires to fit the room, mistaking permission for protection. Coming out of a literary moment that treated sex, ambition, and self-invention as political facts (not just personal choices), the quote reads like an antidote to the internalized voice that calls yearning “too much.”
Why it works is its inversion of common sense. We expect risk to be the thing that threatens us; Jong flips the threat onto the refusal to act. The line compresses a whole narrative arc - the unlived life, the job not taken, the love not confessed - into a single paradox that feels like a moral dare. It doesn’t promise you’ll win. It insists you’re already playing.
The intent feels corrective, almost diagnostic. Jong isn’t romanticizing recklessness; she’s naming the hidden math of avoidance. The subtext is feminist and mid-century in its DNA: for women especially, “safety” has often meant shrinking your desires to fit the room, mistaking permission for protection. Coming out of a literary moment that treated sex, ambition, and self-invention as political facts (not just personal choices), the quote reads like an antidote to the internalized voice that calls yearning “too much.”
Why it works is its inversion of common sense. We expect risk to be the thing that threatens us; Jong flips the threat onto the refusal to act. The line compresses a whole narrative arc - the unlived life, the job not taken, the love not confessed - into a single paradox that feels like a moral dare. It doesn’t promise you’ll win. It insists you’re already playing.
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| Topic | Motivational |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Nice Girls Don't Get Rich (Lois P. Frankel, 2009) modern compilationISBN: 9780446568647 · ID: 1YQ3AQAAQBAJ
Evidence: ... And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more. ERICA JONG If there's one common financial regret among women once they reach midlife, it's that they didn't start saving early enough. As with all the mistakes in this ... Other candidates (1) Erica Jong (Erica Jong) compilation69.2% because i loved myself i was loved if you dont risk anything you risk even more |
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