"And to be different is great. You don't want to be the same"
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The subtext is about survival in industries that reward conformity while selling uniqueness. As an actress who came up in a system that auditions you by “type” and pressures you to sand down any jagged edges, Johnston’s phrasing reads like a small act of rebellion against branding-by-template. “You don’t want to be the same” isn’t just personal advice; it’s a critique of how social belonging often operates: acceptance is offered in exchange for self-erasure.
What makes the quote work is its casual certainty. It doesn’t negotiate with insecurity or apologize for standing out. That directness feels culturally specific to the late-90s/early-2000s pop-psych ethos where individuality became both a moral stance and a market category. The line also carries a quiet edge: it implies you may be pressured to match the room, and you should resist.
In a moment when algorithms push us toward aesthetic uniformity and “relatable” becomes its own performance, Johnston’s simplicity lands as a reset. Being different isn’t a costume. It’s the one thing you have that can’t be mass-produced.
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Johnston, Kristen. (n.d.). And to be different is great. You don't want to be the same. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-to-be-different-is-great-you-dont-want-to-be-60913/
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