"And verily, a woman need know but one man well, in order to understand all men; whereas a man may know all women and understand not one of them"
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The subtext is less about inherent female wisdom than about power and attention. Early-20th-century courtship culture rewarded men for conquest and women for perception. Women were expected to read signals, manage moods, anticipate consequences. Men were permitted the luxury of not noticing. Rowland turns that social training into a punchline: the female gaze becomes forensic; the male gaze becomes tourism.
“Verily” is doing sly work, too. It mock-biblicalizes a worldly observation, giving the quip a faux-solemn authority that heightens the comedy. And “understand” is the loaded word. Rowland doesn’t mean knowing facts about women; she means grasping interiority, motive, the messy private logic that doesn’t show up in public performance. The jab isn’t that men lack access to women; it’s that they often mistake proximity for comprehension.
In a newsroom era when women writers carved influence through wit, Rowland weaponizes aphorism: short, stylish, and just cynical enough to feel true.
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Rowland, Helen. (2026, January 18). And verily, a woman need know but one man well, in order to understand all men; whereas a man may know all women and understand not one of them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-verily-a-woman-need-know-but-one-man-well-in-14609/
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Rowland, Helen. "And verily, a woman need know but one man well, in order to understand all men; whereas a man may know all women and understand not one of them." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-verily-a-woman-need-know-but-one-man-well-in-14609/.
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"And verily, a woman need know but one man well, in order to understand all men; whereas a man may know all women and understand not one of them." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-verily-a-woman-need-know-but-one-man-well-in-14609/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.







