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Daily Inspiration Quote by James Stockdale

"And we had our own laws. I mean, I wrote them. And we had our own customs, and traditions, and proprieties"

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In captivity, sovereignty gets rebuilt out of scraps. Stockdale’s line isn’t a chest-thump about ego; it’s a blunt account of how leadership works when the state has vanished and the enemy controls the calendar, the food, the light. “We had our own laws” is less metaphor than operating system: a code to keep men from dissolving into isolated survival units. The quick clarification, “I mean, I wrote them,” carries the hard edge of consequence. In a normal hierarchy, rules are inherited, debated, revised. In a prison camp, they’re drafted in real time by whoever can see the moral terrain and take responsibility for it.

The list that follows - “customs, and traditions, and proprieties” - is doing heavy work. It’s not nostalgia; it’s scaffolding. Customs create predictability. Traditions give suffering a narrative arc (you endure because others endured). “Proprieties” sounds almost comically civilized in a cell, which is exactly the point: manners become a weapon. Insisting on standards - how you communicate, how you resist, how you treat the weak link - is a way of refusing the captor’s preferred story that you are merely broken bodies.

Context matters: Stockdale wasn’t describing comfort; he was describing a regime of self-governance under coercion, where “laws” might include enforced silence, coded taps, collective discipline, even punishment. The subtext is ethical and unsentimental: freedom can shrink to a few choices, but those choices can still be structured into a culture. He’s naming the paradox of resilience - that dignity often survives not through individual grit, but through rules someone is willing to write and everyone is willing to live by.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stockdale, James. (2026, January 15). And we had our own laws. I mean, I wrote them. And we had our own customs, and traditions, and proprieties. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-we-had-our-own-laws-i-mean-i-wrote-them-and-106470/

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Stockdale, James. "And we had our own laws. I mean, I wrote them. And we had our own customs, and traditions, and proprieties." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-we-had-our-own-laws-i-mean-i-wrote-them-and-106470/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And we had our own laws. I mean, I wrote them. And we had our own customs, and traditions, and proprieties." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-we-had-our-own-laws-i-mean-i-wrote-them-and-106470/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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James Stockdale (December 23, 1923 - July 5, 2005) was a Soldier from USA.

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