"And we have done more in the two and a half years that I've been in here than the previous 43 Presidents to uphold that principle, whether it's ending "don't ask, don't tell," making sure that gay and lesbian partners can visit each other in hospitals, making sure that federal benefits can be provided to same-sex couples"
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The subtext is triangulation with teeth. Obama signals to LGBTQ Americans and allies that the White House is on their side, while wrapping that commitment in institutional language (“federal benefits,” “visit each other in hospitals”) that sounds procedural rather than ideological. These examples are strategically chosen: military service, bedside access, and benefits are not abstract debates about identity; they are everyday dignities denied. The argument isn’t “approve of us,” it’s “stop punishing us.”
Context matters: early in his presidency, Obama was navigating a Democratic coalition split between civil-rights momentum and lingering electoral caution, especially before nationwide marriage equality. “Don’t ask, don’t tell” was a widely legible symbol of sanctioned hypocrisy, and repealing it offered a concrete, patriotic frame: the country should not require secrecy as the price of service. The line quietly claims a historical mandate, positioning his administration as the one that finally translated tolerance into governance.
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Obama, Barack. (2026, January 17). And we have done more in the two and a half years that I've been in here than the previous 43 Presidents to uphold that principle, whether it's ending "don't ask, don't tell," making sure that gay and lesbian partners can visit each other in hospitals, making sure that federal benefits can be provided to same-sex couples. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-we-have-done-more-in-the-two-and-a-half-years-25218/
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Obama, Barack. "And we have done more in the two and a half years that I've been in here than the previous 43 Presidents to uphold that principle, whether it's ending "don't ask, don't tell," making sure that gay and lesbian partners can visit each other in hospitals, making sure that federal benefits can be provided to same-sex couples." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-we-have-done-more-in-the-two-and-a-half-years-25218/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And we have done more in the two and a half years that I've been in here than the previous 43 Presidents to uphold that principle, whether it's ending "don't ask, don't tell," making sure that gay and lesbian partners can visit each other in hospitals, making sure that federal benefits can be provided to same-sex couples." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-we-have-done-more-in-the-two-and-a-half-years-25218/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.


